Work 1:1 with me to prioritise your marriage
For married women who want their relationship to feel *Easy*
3 month coaching program that helps you prioritise the FUCK out of your marriage so you stop living like roommates and start building a marriage where you are both ruthlessly and relentlessly committed to meeting each others' needs and making each other feel loved every single day
In my world, marriage is EASY.
We are deliriously happy. We are ABNORMALLY happy. Instead of worrying if/when the honeymoon phase will end, we’re sitting round saying “what a great fucking life”.
And before you @ me, I don’t mean that nothing bad or difficult ever happens to us.
I don’t mean that my husband and I never disagree or take turns having to do the dishes.
I mean that we put in the effort to MAKE it easy.
- We are ruthlessly and relentlessly committed to each other.
- We prioritise ourselves and each other above everything else.
- We never resent each other or the people around us because we have killer energetic boundaries.
- We communicate openly and without ever fighting, judging, or disrespecting each other.
- We’ve known each other for 13 years, been together for 5 and married nearly 4 years and have NEVER felt like “roommates” (in fact we are more in love every day)
And it’s not as hard as you’ve been taught to believe.
Life is mofo short, y'all.
You can't half-ass something as important as love.
I know that YOU know that slowly turning into roommates isn’t the kind of heart thumping, stars aligning, paradigm shifting marriage you signed up for when you said “I do”.
When you prioritise your marriage, your love gets to be that good. It gets to be EASY. All the time. You become that couple that never takes their eyes off each other in a room and people wonder how you’re still so in love this many years after the honeymoon.
You’re a hopeless romantic- and that’s kinda my speciality.
I don't what "it" is, but this is not it
- Your marriage has gotten aggressively comfortable and routine. Most of your spare time with your husband is spent either cleaning, cooking and doing life admin or staring at your phones on the couch
- Most nights you crawl into bed completely exhausted and can't imagine having the energy to go on a date, let alone have fun, fulfilling sex
- You feel the turmoil to be wildly independent and go partying with the girls and succeed in your career AND have an incredible marriage. Can women have both? (spoiler: I do and you can too 😘)
- You feel like your husband isn't meeting your emotional needs no matter how much you ask and have decided that maybe you're just asking for too much anyway 🙄
- 90% of your conversations revolve around what's for dinner, whether or not insurance has been paid, what colour you want to paint the laundry room, rather than the "getting to know you" questions you used to ask each other on dates
"Lucy will call you out in love"
“I love that Lucy is really honest and 100% on your side to help you live your best life! She will call you out and be like girl… and it’s the love punch you needed! Because it all comes from a place of love its easier to hear!”
- Kirsten
WHAT IF YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND...
- Felt like newly weds again
No matter how busy you were, you still felt deeply connected and in love rather than always being stuck in daily routines
- made more time just for each other
Without feeling guilty that the kids need something or that you still haven’t mowed the lawns
- Had more sex and fun dates
Because you actually have the energy and are in the mood to love up on each other instead of falling into bed exhausted
- Stopped fighting about silly little things
And started communicating, letting go of the little things so that you are more relaxed with each other and living in the moment
Work with Lucy 1:1
Married AF Coaching
3 months to re-prioritise your marriage and make it feel as easy as when you were dating so that you feel deeply connected and supported by your husband no matter how busy life gets
When you work with me you'll get...
01
Tough love
2 x video calls per month
- Practical support in prioritising yourself & your marriage in your schedule through 1:1 video calls
- Coaching on how to build the *easy* love you really want & setting tangible goals to match so you can see progress
- Learning how to re- build intimacy and connection with your husband even when you’re busy
02
Back Pocket Coaching
Whatsapp Voice Notes
- Accountability to yourself, your marriage & the goals we set in our sessions
- Practical steps and questions to apply throughout the week that will change your marriage long after we finish working together
- Working through wins and challenges in real time
03
I've got you boo
Personal cheerleader
04
Bring your husband to work day
1 x Double date couples call (VIP)
- Ask questions from both perspectives (we have NO secrets, ask us anything you want to know! Money, sex, communication, date night, in laws, kids, no kids, bring it on)
- Be completely open and honest about what you want your marriage to look like, with help to execute it from another couple that is married as FUCK
- Learn how we work together as a couple to prioritise our marriage
When you learn how to prioritise your marriage..
3 months from now...
You'll feel more connected to your husband
3 months from now...
You'll have more energy for your husband
3 months from now...
You'll feel more alive in yourself
Your coffee drinking, booty shaking, love-obsessed marriage coach
And it's because I allow myself to experience love deeply and wholeheartedly.
I'm spiritual AND a freak. I shake my ass in dance class AND love my husband with everything I have. I love to party and travel AND build a home together. I want to help you open your capacity for love and life as well.
Everything changes when you decide to prioritise the fuck out of yourself and your marriage, say no to things that drain you, communicate what you need from your husband openly, accept the parts of you that crave a deep, wild love, and love relentlessly without holding back.
Let me help you prioritise your husband again and build a newly wed love that other married couples are jealous of!
03
Years married
14+
Years since meeting him
100%
dancing right now
Your dream marriage awaits
Married AF 3 Month Coaching Program
It’s time to stop giving each other whatever scraps of energy you have left over at the end of the day and start prioritising the fuck out of your marriage and yourselves again so that you feel connected, supported and loved in your relationship
You, me, & 3 months of putting your marriage first Again
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$500nzd x 3
3 month payment plan
6 x 1:1 calls
Whatsapp messenger access
3 easy monthly payments
$1300NZD x 1 (save $200)
Pay in full for 3 months
6 x 1:1 calls
Whatsapp messenger access
Save $200 with pay in full!
$1750
VIP
6 x 1:1 calls
Whatsapp messenger access
1 x Double date call
Payment plans only on request
If you are at the point where you feel like roommates instead of lovers, getting back to that newly wed feel takes commitment. It takes prioritisation. I support you long term through drastically rearranging your schedule, focus and priorities around your marriage. We COULD just do a one-off session where I tell you what you need to do, but over 3 months I can support you to implement everything I teach as well which means it is more likely to stick long after we finish working together. This is a 3 month investment in the rest of your life together
Yep! Easy peasy! You can either pay $500 per month for Married AF Coaching OR $587 per month for VIP (on request)
We jump on a call every two weeks (I’ve done them every week in past programs and it is a LOT, for both of us 😂 ). You can send me Whatsapp messages and voice notes as new things pop up and I answer Mon-Fri
That’s up to you and your husband! I would probably recommend doing it closer to the beginning so you are both on the same page about what you are building together and get on the same page early (no point pushing shit up hill by yourself!). Because it involves Carl’s schedule as well you need to book this at LEAST a week in advance
I don’t mind if he comes to one or two (this is about your marriage after all!) however a lot of what we work on is you specifically so it will be good to have some space for just the two of us