Work 1:1 with me to prioritise yourself

For the woman who has a good life on paper but is quietly afraid that their spark has gone out. 

1:1 coaching to help you step out of survival mode, create boundaries that protect your energy, and intentionally build a life that feels slower, softer, and more deeply alive.

Why are you working so hard?

Not your job- the reason behind it. 

Maybe it’s because you want slow mornings and more freedom over your time. Maybe you want to build a beautiful life with someone you love. Maybe you want financial security, meaning, or the chance to finally breathe a little easier. 

Those are all wonderful things. 

But somewhere along the way you’ve learnt that you’re not allowed any of things until you’ve got figured everything out.

When work settles down.

When the kids are older.

When you’re earning more money. 

When you’re less busy. 

When you’re back to your ideal weight

When you’ve finally become the woman your younger self dreamed of. 

and then suddenly you're hearing this quiet, tired voice in your head asking:

"When did my spark go out?"

Because maybe your life looks fine on paper.

You are so grateful for your job.

You’re doing everything right. 

But there’s this part of you that doesn’t feel like herself anymore. 

A part of your heart that is flickering out. 

It feels like a part of you is missing. The part of you that feels deeply and doesn't like to rush. The part that is craving

"Best thing i did was work with you"

“I’m still now down the track utilizing the tools and work we did together – my life rules! I love that Lucy is really honest and 100% on your side to help you live your best life! She will call you out and be like girl… and it’s the love punch you needed! Because it all comes from a place of love its easier to hear!”

- Kirsten

WHAT IF YOU...

The version of you that isn’t exhausted and snappy at everyone. Who’s life doesn’t revolve around work. That notices sunshine and sunsets. That is excited to be alive. 

Say no without agonizing over whether you are a terrible person, protecting what matters most so that you build a life that feels deeply connected, intentional, and yours

The people you love don’t just get scraps of your energy, you re-discover old hobbies because you actually have mental capacity, 

Instead creating a life that you want to wake up to – not because everything is perfect, but because you are present enough to find magic in ordinary moments 

Work with Lucy 1:1

Life Before Later Coaching

1:1 coaching to help you stop postponing the life you are craving, create boundaries that protect what matters most, and build a life that feels deeply connected, delicious, and yours – no matter how busy it gets

When you work with me you'll get...

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Lucy Bekker marriage coaching on laptop

Tough love

1:1 coaching calls

Our video calls are where we get real.

Real about the life you actually want to be living.

Real about the things you keep saying you’ll make time for “one day.”

Real about the boundaries you know you need but struggle to hold.

Real about the fact that you don’t want to spend your best years feeling busy, exhausted, and disconnected from yourself.

I don’t believe you need to earn the right to rest, and neither will you with: 

  • Practical support to create boundaries, protect your energy, and prioritise the things that matter most through personalised 1:1 coaching calls
  • Coaching on how to build the *easy* love you really want & setting tangible goals to match so you can see progress 
  • Learning how to create more presence, connection, and joy in your everyday life — even when your schedule is full

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Lucy bekker marriage coach toasting with drink

I've got you boo

Accountability & Encouragement

You don’t need someone else telling your to work harder towards your goals. 

Creating a slow life that you love requires more than knowing what you want — it requires choosing it consistently.

For our calls (and beyond!), consider me your personal cheerleader. I’ll be here to celebrate your progress, challenge the patterns keeping you stuck, and remind you that your life is happening now.

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Lucy Bekker marriage coaching on phone

Back Pocket Coaching

DM Voice Notes (VIP)

Because real life doesn’t only happen during our coaching calls.

The moment you decide to create change, life (and your mind) will throw emotional curve balls — a stressful week at work, old habits creeping back in, moments where you know what you want to do but need someone to help you follow through.

That’s where back pocket coaching comes in.

In between our calls, you can send me questions, reflections, wins, and challenges via DM so you have support, perspective, and accountability exactly when you need it.

DM coaching is amazing for: 

  • Staying accountable to the boundaries, priorities, and intentions we create together
  • Working through real-life situations as they happen, so you don’t fall back into old patterns
  • Getting practical guidance, mindset shifts, and next steps to help you create a life that feels more intentional every week
  • Celebrating your wins and noticing the changes you’re creating (because progress deserves to be acknowledged too)

When you learn how to prioritise yourself..

after working with me

You'll have more energy for the people and things you love

When you stop giving work all of your time and energy, you finally have something left for yourself. More evenings that feel like yours, more time for the people you love, and more space to enjoy the ordinary moments you've been rushing past.

after working with me

You'll stop waiting for life to slow down before you rest

You'll learn how to create boundaries that protect your time and energy so you can enjoy your life now instead of postponing it for some mythical future version of yourself (spoiler: that time will never come if you don't allow it to)

after working with me

You'll feel more like yourself

The best side effect of creating a life that works for you? You feel lighter, calmer, more playful, more present, and more connected to the woman underneath all the responsibilities.

Your coffee drinking, booty shaking, love-obsessed coach

I’m kind of intense when it comes to appreciating the little things. I run to see the sunset, I take an hour to drink my coffee in the sun, I want to make ordinary moments as delicious as possible. 

I have given myself permission to experience life and love deeply and wholeheartedly - and I'm going to do the same for you. 

I'm spiritual AND a freak. I shake my ass in dance class AND love my husband with everything I have. I love to party and travel AND build a home together. I want to help you open your capacity for life and love as well.

Everything changes when you decide to prioritise the fuck out of yourself, say no to things that drain you, communicate and demand what you want from life without apologising, accept the parts of you that crave a deep, wild love, and love life relentlessly without holding back.

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Years married

And more in love every day

3+

years as a life coach

And only just getting started

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dancing right now

Booty shaking coach, at your service

Your life is waiting for you

Life Over Later 1:1 Coaching

It’s time to stop treating joy, rest, connection, and presence like rewards you’ll earn one day and start making space for them now. It’s time to stop giving yourself whatever scraps of time and energy are left over at the end of the day and start prioritising the fuck out of your life again so that you feel connected to yourself, present in your days, and excited about the life you’re building.

You, me, & a committment to making your life more delicious

Work With Me

$97NZD x 1

1 x 1:1 Coaching Call

Support to prioritise the FUCK out of what matters most so that your life feels richer, slower, and more deeply yours.

1 epic call
1 easy payment

$247 NZD

3 x Coaching Call Bundle

Support to prioritise the FUCK out of what matters most so that your life feels richer, slower, and more deeply yours.

5 x 1:1 calls
Save when you purchase multiple sessions

$797NZD

VIP

Weekly 1:1 coaching PLUS DM voice note access for 6 weeks

6 x 1:1 calls
DM coaching access
Payment plans available